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What Does He Mean When He Says The Other Woman Was Only A Diversion?
I heard from a wife who said: “my husband cheated with a woman who was training him in martial arts. He told me about the affair and agreed to start going to another studio. Our marriage isn’t the same. I’ve even considered asking my husband to move out. When I share this with him, he gets frustrated. He says that this other woman meant nothing whatsoever to him and was a just a diversion to make him feel better about himself. He says the whole reason he took up martial arts in the first place was because of aging and low self esteem. Supposedly, the other woman was meant to address the self esteem issue or at least divert his attention away from it. I believe he thinks that this claim is going to make me feel better but I’m not sure that it does. Whether she was a diversion or not, he still cheated on me. I don’t think there’s any good reason for cheating. And I’m not even sure what these words of his are supposed to mean to me. What do these claims even mean? And how do I respond to them?”
I Am So Angry At Myself For Taking Back The Husband Who Had AffairsI heard from a wife who said: “my husband has cheated on me twice. The first time, I took him back pretty easily because it was his first indiscretion and he seemed so overwhelmingly sorry. We had small children at that time and it never ever occurred to me not to take him back. Well, fast forward about five years. He did it again. This time with a different woman. And he apologized profusely once again. But he would never successfully pinpoint or explain what made him keep doing this. It infuriates me not to have any answers. And then I look at my kids and wonder how I can remove their father from their lives. So I let him stay. But I hate myself for doing so. I feel like I have no back bone or self esteem. I almost feel as if my husband is having a good laugh behind my back because he knows that I’m never really going to take a stand. And I just kind of wait for the day that he is going to cheat again. How can I make this better? Because I can hardly stand to look in the mirror.”
