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My Husband Says He Had An Affair Because I Always Criticized Him
I often hear from people whose cheating spouses are doing their very best to blame the cheating on anyone but themselves. To that end, they will often say that their spouse’s negative behavior “drove” or “inspired” them to cheat. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband cheated on me and I found out about it 2 months ago. Since that time, I have been trying to explore what would cause him to do this. When we first started having conversations about this, he would say that he didn’t know why he cheated. But lately, he’s started to say that my behavior drove him to cheat. More specifically, he is saying that my criticism drove him to seek out other women. He says that he always feels like he has to walk around egg shells with me. He also says I make him feel as if he’s not good enough. Personally, I think what he’s saying is a not valid, but I want to know if it’s possible for my spouse to cheat because I was too critical of him?”
Does It Matter When A Man Isn’t Thinking Of The Consequences When He Cheats?I heard from a wife who said: “I caught my husband cheating about a month ago. He didn’t have enough integrity to admit to this himself. Instead, I saw text messages on his phone. I am so mad at him. And when I ask him what in the world he was thinking and how he could risk our marriage and our family this way, his response to me is that he wasn’t thinking of the consequences before he acted. What kind of excuse is this? I mean, what if I didn’t think of the consequences before I quit my job or before I did something destructive that might ruin our family? Why is he allowed to give such a lame excuse? Because regardless of whether he was thinking about the consequences, I now have to deal with them. Why would he even say this to me?” I will try to discuss these concerns in the following article.
