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I’m Trying So Hard To Save My Marriage, But I’m Still In Love With The Other Person
“I made the huge mistake of cheating on my spouse last year. My husband found out about it from the other man. My husband immediately confronted me and I admitted to everything. I don’t want to jeopardize my family. We have two children and although I don’t think that my husband would fight me for custody, I just don’t want to take any chances and I know that my children are better off with their parents together. So, I told my husband that I would end the affair and I did. My husband very willingly went to counseling and things are slowly improving. I feel that in many ways, our marriage is being strengthened by this and I’m quite grateful that this is the case. You would think that everything would be moving along and that I wouldn’t have to much to worry about, but you’d be wrong. My problem is that I can not stop thinking about the other man. I still love him. I don’t think that I will ever stop loving him. And part of me feels that this is never going to be fair to my husband. What can I do?”
My Husband Contradicts Himself – He’s Told The Other Woman That He Loves Her, He’s Told Me The Same“when I first caught my husband cheating, he refused to discuss the other woman at all. Eventually though, he realized that he owed me some answers and he agreed to go to counseling. During one of those sessions, the counselor started probing his feelings for the other woman. He answered that he had real feelings. The counselor asked him what he meant by ‘real feelings’ and he stated that he loved her. Needless to say, this is the last thing that I wanted to hear. I decided that our marriage didn’t stand a chance because I just can’t be married to someone who is admittedly in love with someone else. However, when I told my husband this, he said that upon further reflection he didn’t really love the other woman.. He says that now that he has had more time to be away from her and to think about it more objectively, he realizes that what they had wasn’t really love. To take it even further, he said that he realizes that what we have is love. In short, now he is doing a complete about face and saying that it is me who he loves.”
