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I’ve Changed After My Spouse’s Affair, And Some Of The Changes Are Actually Positive
“I know that it is not unusual to change after your spouse has an affair. But from the friends and family members that I’ve seen go though this, this change is usually negative. Instead, what I feel is that life is too short to wallow in this despair. My husband’s affair actually made me see the danger of becoming complacent. I have started to realize that you are guaranteed nothing in this life and that you’d better get to living and enjoying life while you have the chance. I have dinner and drinks with a small group of friends on a regular basis. Many of these friends have dealt with cheating and some of them do not understand my thinking and believe that I am delusional or kidding myself. They also think that I’m trying to see the bright side because the truth is just too painful. Are they right? I’m not denying that this is going to be harmful to my marriage. I have not committed to working things out yet. This is more about me individually. I’m just realizing that one has to embrace life because you don’t know what tomorrow will bring. Is that so wrong?”
When I Get Angry And Frustrated About My Spouse’s Affair, He Acts Like He Might Move Out“I am furious with my husband for having an affair and I make absolutely no apologies for that. He lied to the other woman also. He made her believe that there was a future for them. But when I found out about the affair, he abruptly broke it off with her and never looked back. He handled this whole thing horribly; and frankly, it makes me think much less of him as a person. So yes, I’m very angry and I am treating him accordingly. But when he really feels my wrath, he gets angry right back at me and he will say things like, ‘well, if this how I’m going to be treated for the rest of my life, then maybe I should leave and we should split up.’ Or he respond with something like, ‘We are never going to make it if we treat each other this way.’ So when he says things like this, I almost feel as though it is blackmail. It is just meant to shut me up. I feel like he’s going to try and get me to just be quiet and to not express my anger anymore.”
Relationships: Is There A Reason Why Some People Always End Up With People Who Cheat On Them?If one spends a fair amount of time watching TV, there is a strong chance that they have watched programs where people have cheated on their spouse or partner. This is often a common theme when it comes to dramas and soaps, for instance.
How Should The Other Woman Proceed When The Wife Finds Out About The Affair?“I feel stupid admitting that I honestly thought I was going to live happily ever after with the man that I was dating. I knew that he was married, but he presented it to me like he was working on untangling himself from that. Still, he was always careful that his wife would not find out. But she did. And I was shocked when he immediately told me that he could not see me anymore and begged me not to make this harder than it already was. Now this guy and his wife are scrambling to save their family, but what about me? I feel like I am left out in the cold of all of this. I am tempted to try to contact his wife and plead my case. I want her to know that the husband represented to me that their marriage was over. I want for her to have all of the information so that she doesn’t think that her husband is loyal. And I want to see the other man and plead my case. After all that we have been through, it is annoying that he is just going to walk away. What should I do?”
Why Do Affairs Happen To Couples Who Are Newly Married Or Young?“I just found out that my husband had a short affair or fling. I do not understand this. We are young. We’ve only been married for sixteen months. We dated throughout our last two years of college and we are finally at the point where we’ve always dreamed of being. We finally have decent paying jobs and we are not poor college students anymore. Yes, our jobs can be stressful because we are just starting out, but we expected this. This should be the most wonderful time in our lives. Instead, this woman called me and told me that she’d been sleeping with my husband. He didn’t deny it, but says it meant nothing and was only a few times. He said he’d been under stress at work. I don’t get this. I’m very young and pretty. There’s no 7 year itch. There’s no younger woman because I myself am young. There’s no midlife crisis because my husband is also young. Why would a young husband who is newly-married cheat?”
