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Are There Any Questions That I Should Avoid Asking After My Spouse’s Affair?
“I will admit that lately, much of my days have been spent wondering about my spouse’s affair. And I have asked him many questions. But even though he has been patiently trying to answer everything, there are always more questions that pop up. I want the answers, but I honestly feel like most every conversation that we have lately centered on my wanting to understand the affair. And yet, the more he tries to explain it, the less I feel I understand it. And so I feel like we are going round in circles with no real resolution. And I feel like I’m almost harming the process with my endless list of questions. So I’ve started thinking that maybe I am approaching this in the wrong way. Are there any questions that I should not be asking? Are any questions off limits or harmful?”
Does It Matter If Your Husband Is Claiming He Never Had Any Intention To Have An Affair?“I caught my husband cheating on me with our hair dresser. We have both been going to this woman for years. I have always liked her. I do not understand how this could have happened. Since she cuts my hair, she knows me very well. She knows that we have a family. There are times when I feel like I hate them both. My husband can not give me any plausible explanation as to how and why this happened. He says that it has only been going on for about a month and that he has no problems ending it. One thing that he is saying over and over is that he didn’t walk into the salon with the intentions of having an affair. His phrasing about is something like: ‘I want you to know that I didn’t mean to have an affair. I didn’t intentionally set out to hurt you. I still don’t know how I let it happen but I did not plan it or intent for it to ever happen.’ He says this like this should make him less culpable. Honestly, it doesn’t matter all that much to me. Should it?”
