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I Do Believe My Spouse Is Sorry For Cheating. But I Don’t Feel Like It’s Enough
“My husband cheated on me with an old girlfriend. He insists that it was only a one time thing after a night of drinking. He says he didn’t have to tell me, but he wanted to do so because he wanted to assure me that it will never happen again. He seems very sorry. I have seen him cry over this. I wake up in the middle of the night and I will find him sitting in the living room staring into space, clearly beside himself. And I know that in his mind, he doesn’t intend to cheat again. I also know that he didn’t have to tell me. But, for whatever reason, it just doesn’t seem like enough. Sure, he’s sorry. But his sorrow doesn’t change anything. It doesn’t take away my hurt. It doesn’t mean that the cheating didn’t happen. I feel like he is the one who gets to cheat. And I am the one who gets to pick up the mess. At the same time, I am not sure that I am ready to walk away from my marriage. But I just don’t think ‘I’m sorry’ is enough.”
I’m Starting To Wonder If It Was A Mistake To Stay With My Cheating Spouse“My husband cheated on me very early on in our marriage. I stayed with him because he seemed very remorseful. And also, I was embarrassed to walk away from my marriage. My husband apologized and promised to change his life style. He made good on this promise at that time. And we just moved on with our lives. I tried very hard not to think about it. I was new in my career and we needed one another in order to afford our new home. So I felt that it was in my best interest to stay. Fast forward seven years. We now have two children. My career is more successful than his. I’ve seen many of my friends divorce and remarry and be perfectly happy. I have seen friends leave cheating husbands and be much better off for it. I do not think that my husband has cheated on me except for the one time. But, he takes me for granted. And I noticed he’s starting again with some of those behaviors he was doing before he cheated. Now I am questioning my decision to stay with him.”
