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Why Does A Married Woman Cheat?
Marriage is the union of man and woman in the eyes of God. But why does a married woman cheats?
I’m Not Sure How To Quiet Or Ignore That Nagging Worry That My Husband Will Cheat Again“My children don’t know why I’ve asked their dad to leave our home. But they are devastated that, at least for a little while, their dad is sleeping elsewhere. They know that their parents are struggling and they want their family back. In the meantime, my husband calls every night to say goodnight to the children. After he talks to them, he asks to speak with me. During every conversation, he asks me to give him another chance. He says that he will never make so big a mistake again. Part of me is tempted by this. But another part of me is so appalled by the fact that my husband was carrying on this very long-term and apparently serious affair and I had no inclination whatsoever. For all I know, this isn’t the first time that he has cheated on me. I’d like to think that we can recover, but I’m not sure if I’ll ever be able to quiet the little voices in my head. Am I just supposed to ignore these voices? I worry that ignoring them is what got me into this mess in the first place.”
How Come Some Marriages Recover From An Affair Quickly While Others Take A Very Long Time?“I actually have a handful of friends who have had marriages nearly ruined by a husband’s affair. A few of those friends got an immediate divorce. One more eventually divorced, but actually hung on for a year and a half trying to make it work. Another couple had a few rough months, but eventually had an ever better marriage than before. I am very close to this couple and they actually seem blissfully happy now. The wife believes that life is too short to hold onto anger and she seems able to just let it go. The husband is remorseful and could not be more devoted to her. Meanwhile, my husband and I struggle horribly. It seems like we are angry and anxious a lot of the time. That said, I do believe that we are both trying and that we both genuinely want for things to work out. But we just don’t seem to be one of those couples who are going to recover quickly. What differentiates the couples who are able to move on in a timely fashion and those who are not?”
My Husband Does Not Make Me A Priority After His Infidelity“After I caught my husband cheating, he cried that very night. He told me that he’d never been more sorry about anything and that he had no idea what he would do if he lost me. He told me that if I gave him a chance, I would see a different man. I wanted to believe this. He seemed remorseful and sweet when he promised to change, so I wanted to believe him. Unfortunately, not much has changed. He still works just as much. He never seems to have additional time for me. I’m not claiming that he has less time for me. It’s just about the same. And I expected for him to try to clear his schedule some so that we could do special things to recover. My friends say that I should say something about this, but I don’t feel as if I should have to. I’m very depressed. I feel like he sold me a big fat lie. I am not sure why he made such a big stink for me not to leave him if he wasn’t going to try to make things better. Now I’m having regrets and I’m not sure what to do.”
My Husband Had An Affair – I’m Not Sure That I Can Ever Be Happy Again“My husband and I were very happy before his affair. My husband and I loved and liked each other. We loved spending time together. We’d even been through hard times together and we came out much stronger and it made our marriage better. But I do not see that happening this time. I do not think that I will ever get over this infidelity. And our happy marriage, that was always so full of love and laughter, is now barren. The affair lasted for less than two weeks and my husband was eaten up with guilt. He acts as if he does not understand why he did this, but he insists that we can recover from it. He says that he knows that he can make me happy again if I will just give him that chance. I don’t believe this. The only way that I could ever be happy again if we could erase the past and the affair and then just go on as though it never happened. Obviously, that isn’t possible. So I believe that my happiness is over. And because of this, I just don’t see the point in staying married anymore.”
